
For Families
Kids with Courage

Kids with Courage is a seven session program that aims to strengthen primary aged children (7-12) who are struggling with issues at school, at home or with peer relationships. The program is used as both prevention and intervention for children. It is a program that builds on the strengths of the child and develops emotional resilience. It has been developed by a team of child educators, psychologists and welfare workers and includes drama, puppetry, hands on activities and small group work. Co-ordinators & Facilitators: The Co-ordinator of this program must have professional qualifications in a child-related area. Facilitators must have similar qualifications, or else have proven experience in working with children. All those involved in this program must have undergone a police check. The program has a lion mascot who models problem-solving skills in a non-threatening atmosphere. Throughout the program children have the opportunity to explore feelings, set goals, interact with peers and find positive ways of making changes. Session Information: Feelings The aim of this session is to assist the children to identify and express their feelings. Boundaries This session seeks to assist children with establishing protective behaviours, and gives them strategies for resisting peer group pressure. Social Skills This session aims to raise awareness of personal behaviour, to introduce problem-solving skills, and to provide modelling and practice of appropriate communication. Grief & Loss This session focuses on providing children with an opportunity to express feelings of grief and loss, and to develop strategies for dealing with grief and loss. Anger In this session children will recognise that anger is a natural response, and identify appropriate ways to express anger. Fear and Worry This session aims to develop awareness that fear and worry are normal emotions and to model, process and practice strategies that assist in minimising anxious, frightened feelings and behaviours. Self-Esteem The aim of this session is to promote healthy self-esteem and to convey to the children that everyone has value.
Parents with Courage

Parents with Courage is a seven session program that aims to provide parents with greater self-understanding as well as enhanced skills for parenting. This program is for families with older primary and high school aged children and seeks to equip parents as well as provide support for those who are currently facing challenges. The sessions are highly practical with insight and strategies for intact, blended and single parent families. One of the goals of Parents with Courage is to provide parents with a flexible approach to parenting. This will enable parents to apply strategies in a way that will best fit their family environment and the particular needs of their child. The principles are drawn from research and best practice in the fields of psychology, sociology, education and theology. Session Information: The Dynamics of Family The aim of this session is to encourage and motivate parents and to introduce them to the notion that understanding their own early life experiences will enhance their parenting. The teaching paints a broad canvas of the principles that make for a healthy family dynamic in which the individuals are nurtured and developed and relationships are fulfilling. The elements that produce dysfunction and increased challenges in a family are also described. The Family Circle This session provides an opportunity for participants to do a brief overview of their family of origin using the Family Adaptability and Family Cohesion Questionnaires. This is useful for assessing the level and type of attachment in their family of origin, which is important as this has a direct influence on intimacy in relationships. It is also helpful for a couple to see how their own experiences of family dynamics may be similar to and different from each other. Identifying some of the differences can lead to greater unity in their approach to parenting. Knowing Your Child Family birth order is explored in this session, giving important insight and greater understanding of how to adjust parenting accordingly. Characteristics of a child according to their birth order, and tips for nurturing each child according to their birth order are looked at in detail. The teaching of love languages is covered as a useful tool for parents who will greatly benefit in knowing which “love languages” best communicates with their child. Family Communication The aim of this session is to introduce the usefulness and practicality of family meetings as a communication tool for defusing conflict, resolving issues and setting goals and plans. This session aims to model, teach and give instructions for conducting a family meeting. Parents will learn how to take principles and apply them to their individual circumstance giving consideration for the age and developmental stages of their children and the level of conflict in the home.. Establishing Boundaries This session aims to give parents practical ways of identifying and establishing boundaries with their children. It examines the issue of overcoming resistance and non co-operation, dealing with noncompliance and the common reasons for non-cooperation of a teenager. Sexuality and The Search for Intimacy This session addresses some of the core aspects related to the challenge of parenting our children in an environment that often competes with our values in relation to sexual relationships. Parents need guidance to help their kids negotiate pre-puberty, puberty and their emerging sexuality in a healthy and life affirming way. This session provides an introduction. Your Family: Living Room or Court Room? This session looks at the origin of the human struggle for love, acceptance and belonging. Parents need insight into the nature of this struggle as it will help them identify their own needs and give them greater understanding of the needs of their children. The teaching deals particularly with the tendency we all have for using performance and people pleasing as ways of feeling accepted, loved and valued. When we parent out of our brokenness it can damage our children and our family. We need to understand the dynamic of this and examine whether we are using our family to meet this need. Awareness of this can assist parents to let go of unrealistic expectations and parent in a more relaxed and healthy style.
Mastering Your Money

Although effectively managing your income and expenditure is one of the most basic skills required for life, most people have had no education or discipleship on this vital subject from home, school or church. Mastering Your Money is one of the most important elements involved in maintaining viable marriages and homes where parents raise stable families. Whether married or single, learning to budget with intelligence and discipline is the key for turning dreams about home ownership and living a life of generosity into a reality. Mastering Your Money is also one of the most potent discipleship areas for engaging with God and growing in trust and obedience. This program gives biblical insight and practical how-to application. Studies have shown that 80% of those getting help from churches in financial management become part of the worshipping community. A program designed to provide people with a sound approach to financial management. Session Information: Session 1 - Starting at the Beginning You have to start from where you are. Dr Meyer shares his life long experience both as a Commerce Teacher and as a Pastor. Introducing the first steps to financial control.. Session 2 - First Things First Learning to close the circle of your finances with a well-constructed budget. Learning the difference between obligations, needs and wants. Session 3 - Living Beyond Anxiety This session answers the question: How do I live in such a way as to "seek first His Kingdom?" Learning to align our financial management and goals with our responsibilities at our stage in life. Session 4 - Building a Margin into your Life Learning to create a "seed bag". The seed bag can prove to be one of the most dynamic areas of your budget. Learning how to manage well when income is predictable, and when income is not predictable. Session 5 - Maximising your Potential at every Life Stage Every life stage is vital and different stages of life have different priorities. It is essential to maximise opportunities, looking beyond just the now, and continue the journey of financial mastery and life transformation. Learn how to manage your budget, decrease expenses and increase income.